Why are friends so important in our lives? I just don't get that.
I mean, I think I'm moving some people from the "bestfriends" category into "just-friends" category, and admitting that is scary. I mean what if there were no real "bestfriends" anymore? What if the one bestfriend you rely on is suddenly not there anymore? What then?
I think you really get to know your true friends when you're away from them. Those true friends are the ones who would still have you on their minds when you're away. They're the ones who would not not forget you no matter what.
Having said that, I realize that, in many cases, I have not been a true friend to many people. Not that I'm proud of it, but I'm not trying to judge people or claim perfection either.
I don't know. It's just that thinking of a life without friends is scary, real true friends that is.
Amongst all that, thinking of John Mayer's song Heart of Life makes me smile:
Pain throws your heart to the ground
Love turns the whole thing around
No, it won't all go the way it should
But I know the heart of life is good
Amongst all that, thinking of John Mayer's song Heart of Life makes me smile:
Pain throws your heart to the ground
Love turns the whole thing around
No, it won't all go the way it should
But I know the heart of life is good
Thank you my real-true-best friends for being there, and not giving me up, you know who you are.
May you have a wonderful, storm-less night,
- Sana H.
i believe that: Friends r the only thing that keeps u luving and hoping, sometimes even MORE than ur family..! My BFF since 7th grade is not with me in the same uni.. i see her maybe Once a month.. we might not talk alot, coz we all have different lives nw.. But @ some point! in this ONE day, we get together, and talk as if we just saw each other yesterday!.. wat im saying is that, dont take it too hard on ur self.. a BFF will always b a BFF.. no matter hw far u r! and if ur BFF is not there @ that specific moment.. u have the other 100 friends to rely on! ..
ReplyDeleteFYI, im one of the hundreds (a) .. LOL
a7s, friends are things that come and go. ya3ni mthl ma everyone says, friends leave and then only ur family is left. Ana mathalan, if I look back to the last four of five years, I see a different group of friends in each year. Its weird how that happens, my closest friend two years ago is now just a person I chat with in one of my classes cuz i've got no one else to talk to.
ReplyDeletePeople change, and you change, so u cant help feeling closer or farther than people at times.
A7s if u can find 2 friends that'll stay with u for more than 3 or 4 years through the mess thats called life, theyre real friends, they don't have to last forever..